I haven’t come across too many people that haven’t gone through something that completely destroys them in order for them to find out who they really are.
People need to go through this.
They need it find out what really matters to them, what they value the most and what they are going to do with their life.
So, when you’re going through something that feels like it’s destroying you, hold on to the fact that it’s probably a moment that will make you and your future life possible.